Out of Control

angry

 

Hello everyone! Long time, no post. I had been in the midst of moving my pharmacy. It took lots of planning, cooperation, and teamwork, but it went smoothly and now I can relax again. I will probably go on another hiatus in the upcoming months to study for a law exam. I am in the process of transferring my license to another state, and as soon as I get my authorization to test, I’m going to go back into student mode and study my buns off. But, for now, I am going to return to regular blogging. =)

So, today’s story is one I encountered a few days ago. It was the end of the night, and we were getting ready to close. A woman comes in, and one of my techs goes over to help her. She had some medications to pick up and she had requested print outs of last year’s medications for both her and her husband over the weekend. The policy at our store (in compliance with HIPAA) is that the person for whom the print out is for must be present to receive it. They also have to show ID proving they are who they say they are. The only exceptions are 1.) parents may pick up for children aged 17 & under and 2.) people who have power of attorney over another person may pick up for that individual (in which case, we ask them to bring in the POA paperwork once as proof and we mark it in our system). If the individual is not present and does not fall under one of the exceptions, we are required to mail it in our super spiffy confidential envelopes. All of our techs have been informed of this, but our newest tech dropped the ball and told this women she’d be able to pick up both hers and her husband’s.

Not surprisingly, the woman was upset. I apologized, as it was the fault of our technician’s. As sorry as I was, though, I was not about to break our HIPAA abiding policy. It’s there for the protection of everyone’s privacy and is a good policy. I offered to have it mailed first thing in the morning, letting her know I would personally ensure it got mailed. The woman kept ranting (again, not surprisingly), and I kept apologizing. Up to this point, this is a normal upset patient scenario and one I’ve dealt with several times. I take the brunt of the anger and apologize for a tech’s mistake. Usually, they either calm down after yelling a bit or storm off. This is where things got interesting and where the patient turned from angry to out of control.

She asked to speak with my manager. My manager happened to be standing not far away when the situation started, so I called her over. She also knows this print out policy, as she used to be a tech before becoming a manager. She attempted to intervene and calm the lady down. She offered her a gift card for her trouble (yay, retail store policies of feeding negative behavior!). The lady refused the offer and started to yell louder. She turned back to me, walked towards me, and got right in my face (we’re talking less than six inches from me). She started banging on our counter, and I became scared she would get physical with me and grab me by the collar of my jacket. Her yelling also started to scare the other patients in the pharmacy area. A good ten minutes go by, and this woman has not calmed down (she was actually yelling more) nor accepted any form of apology, telling us instead that we weren’t sorry. She’s still banging on our counters and is now pacing the length of the pharmacy. She kept returning to get as close to me as possible (at this point, I had stepped back a bit so she couldn’t grab me). Those shopping up front could hear her across the store and suggested to the girl working up there that she call the police. Just as my manager decides it may be a good idea to call the police, the woman finished her rant and left, continuing to yell all the way out the doors.

This was one of the few times I was actually scared of a patient. At first, I felt really bad for her. She was misinformed and had every right to be upset and angry with us. But, there is a point that most people reach when they’re yelling where they realize their carrying on won’t fix anything, so they either calm down or leave. I have never had anyone get right in my face like that before. She is one patient I hope never returns and transfers everything elsewhere. Being outright abusive to our staff is uncalled for and does not fix things. You have the right to be angry; you don’t have the right to be out of control like that. When you start scaring other patients and customers to the point where they tell our employees to call the police, that’s when you’ve gone overboard and need to stop. In the end, I still didn’t break HIPAA, and she still left without her husband’s print out. I did mail it the next morning, and it should be at their house by now. But, man…what an experience that night was.

The ironic part of this whole thing is that her husband’s print out contained five items from all of last year. She was out of control over a piece of paper with five items on it. *shakes head*

 

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